My response to “friendzoning/nice guys” cause I have seen a lot of this shit lately.
So there has been a lot of this garbage flying across my screen on facebook. I have feelings about it and need to get them out.
I used to just plain not care about it. I literally couldn’t give two shits about it. “Oh, you like her and she won’t go out with you? That sucks, bro, but if you interrupt my hookah smoking for this shit again I’m gonna put my boot up your ass.”
Then one day someone asked me how I’d feel if my daughter did it to somebody. So I stopped and thought about it.
If my daughter decides not to date someone that is her choice. Who she does date is, again, her choice. I don’t care what color skin they have, what religion they are, what gender, what political affiliation… Ok, I might care their, but I think it is safe to say we’ve all dated a conservative at one point, she has to be allowed to make her own mistakes. I don’t care if it is the bad boy or the jock or the goth or the cheerleader. Whatever, as long as she is happy. If they make her happy and treat her well then I’m okay with them.
If they don’t then I have an axe.
By that same token, who she doesn’t date is also her choice. Just because she won’t go out with you does not make her a bitch or a tramp or a slut. You calling her those names makes you a douchebag. And if I get wind of you calling her those names or hurting her in any way…
I have an axe.
Reblogging for those who missed it buried under a pile of political stuff.
Wait a second. Someone actually asked you, “What would yo do if your daughter friend-zoned someone”? As in, they actually thought you’d see it differently if your daughter told some guy, “I just want to be friends.”?
Jesus fucking Christ if that isn’t the very definition of entitlement I don’t know what is.
What the hell is wrong with people?
(Source: macs-guide-to-the-galaxy, via macs-guide-to-the-galaxy)
