Twisted Strings of Cynicism and Idealism: Calling me a misogynist…
Means nothing to me. To have a woman who spends most of her day on Tumblr bitching about the most trivial things call me a misogynist for pointing out…
Wait wut. Did you… uh.. whut?
Ok. I have no idea what you are saying. But shitfuck i guess I’ll try and answer.
Of course the male sex drive negativly affects women! What the fuck! Catcalling, sexual assault, RAPE???
I am not making men look like victims! What the fuck is wrong with you? I’m stating it as it is!
That has nothing to do with sex-drive you fucking dolt. If you didn’t understand what I was saying then it has to do with a distinct lack of comprehension on your part.
Cat calling, sexual assault and rape have absolutely NO FUCKING THING to do with sex drive. It has to do with regarding women as something men “have power over”.
Men don’t rape because they wake up with a boner and absolutely have to fuck something. Rape is a crime of violence and power. Rape is an act of aggression, it tells the victim “you have no say over what is done to your body.”
Cat calling and sexual assault also have to do with power dynamics. It has nothing to do with sex drive and has everything to do with one’s attitudes towards women.
You have no idea what you are taking about, for someone that spouts about doing “real research” you could stand to do some of your own, your view that rape (as well as cat calling and sexual assault) has anything to do with sex drive makes your ignorance on the subject glaringly obvious.
Are you retarded? You do know that if men didn’t have a sex drive at all, there would be pretty much no rapes? Fuck you.
And with this, you prove just what an ignorant little shit head you are.
I have a suggestion for you.
READ. Fucking read you fucking stupid ass. Get your fucking head out of your stupid little fucking ass and learn shit before you go around spewing your ignorant bullshit.
Hell, I’ll even help since you are obviously too thick headed to do it yourself.
List of RAPE MYTHS <- Fucking read this and stop being an ignorant little shit fuck.
Had a look. Nothing in there actually has anything to do with what we said.
I’m pretty sure a rapist doesn’t looks at a woman and think “I guess i better go suppress her by putting my dick in her”Covering me in insults doesn’t make your point any more valid, or mine any less.
Don’t tone police me, shit for brains. You opened your last post by calling me “retarded” thereby setting the tone. If you don’t want me to talk to you like you’re a fucking piece of shit, show the same respect you are now asking for.
No, I’m sure rapists don’t rationalize what they are doing in that way, but the psychology of why they do it is sound, a lot of people do shit without knowing exactly WHY they do it. That’s why there is the field of psychology for studying these types of things.
Look, the first fact on the page says as follows:
Rape is experienced by the victims as an act of violence. It is a life-threatening experience. One out of every eight adult women has been a victim of forcible rape. (National Victim Center and Crime Victims Research and Treatment Center, 1992) While sexual attraction may be influential, power, control and anger are the primary motives. Most rapists have access to a sexual partner. Gratification comes from gaining power and control and discharging anger. This gratification is only temporary, so the rapist seeks another victim.
The bolding was added by me, because this is PRECISELY what we are talking about.
Do you really have your head so far up your ass that you can’t understand that?
And in the future, if you don’t want to be called a fucking shit face, try not opening your rebuttals with terms like “retarded” and then crying about it when you get the same attitude back.
Arguing tone is intellectually weak and lazy, as it in no way changes the facts at hand, and those facts are that rape is a crime of violence and power. Not sex.
Live with it and accept you were wrong, or keep insisting that you’re right and continue to look like a petulant ass hat.
Ok forget the first answerto this, I was retarded and read your quote wrong.
First of all, you insulted me first. Claiming i opened it is stupid of you.
And i don’t understand why someone would rape out of anger. If its anger, they beat the person up. If its for power and control, they’d manipulate the person.
Rape is fulfilling the rapists need to sexually control someone, and the things you call primary i would call secondary.
I understand though where you are coming from. You think I was implying that the sex drive is the only reason men rape, that wasn’t what I meant.
“While sexual attraction may be influential” power, control and anger are the primary motives.
Do you understand what that means? Do you understand what a “primary motive” is? Do you understand the difference between influence and a primary motive?
Now you’re just being stubborn, you know it’s okay to be wrong, right?
You know it’s okay to be ignorant too, right?
And just in case you don’t understand, as reading comprehension seems to be an issue with you, what you are doing now is what is called willful ignorance.
You have had something pointed out to you that you obviously didn’t know or understand and you continue to pound on your original statement that rape is a crime of sex when it is a crime of violence and control. It said right there in that link I sent you that most rapists have access to a sexual partner, and that gratification comes for gaining power and control and discharging anger.
It did not say “sexual gratification” as that is not what rape is about. You learned something new today, be happy about it and stop insisting you were right when you were obviously ignorant of the subject.
All it’s doing is making you look like even a bigger fucking jackass that you already were.
Please think about what my real statement was.
If men didn’t have a sex drive, they wouldn’t rape.
If a man hated a woman, but didn’t see her sexually attractive at all, she didn’t have a single attribute that he liked, would he rape her? (assuming he is the type who would rape)
I don’t think so. It makes zero sense. Sure, control power and anger are a part of it, but they aren’t the main reason.
Stop trying to back-peddle.
People rape children, people rape old ladies, men rape other men regardless of sexual orientation.
Rape has nothing to do with sexual attraction. It has to do with power.
You are again showing your ignorance on the subject and I’ve seen several other people re-blogging this and saying the same things I am, it’s the facts. Just stop it.
You are making yourself look even more stupid that you were before and it’s almost becoming sad.
Because there are no pedophiles who have a sexual attraction for children. There are no men who have a fetish for older women. There are no homosexual men who would rape. Nope, they are all lies from the patriarchy.
And hey, if a majority agrees on something, it must be true, right?
OH MY GOD DUDE!!! Stop it. It has nothing to do with the “majority agreeing” these are fucking well known facts.
Look motherfucker. You know what. I WAS FUCKING SEXUALLY ASSAULTED BY MY STEPFATHER WHEN I WAS 4.
You know what fucking else? Dude wasn’t a fucking pedophile he wasn’t in to little boys, he fucking did it because my mother threatened to fucking leave him if he didn’t stop being a fucking dick-bag to me.
He did it because he felt he was losing control of my mother because of me.
Fuck you and what you “know” about this shit, because I know what the fuck I am talking about and you need to get your stupid fucking head out of your stupid fucking ass.
